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by Joseph Bolden
Wymyn/Men’s Social Contract
Ever hear of a book entitled:Why Men Earn More?
No,haven’t read it but might after this column is done.
I heard on a radio show from a man and woman that statistics can be
reconfigured to fit anyones analysis at the time.
Wymyn always bring up economic disparity,glass ceiling text book argument mean while a few male friendly websites and organizations.
From what I know is more males are dropping out of high school,less going to college,universities,and headed into prison.
As for women they make up most of the new small business created and entering,graduating from colleges and universities.
I said once to a female pal once “How come there’s no men-get-in-free and free drinks in club bars?”
“Because bar owners wouldn’t make money,bring women free and men follow.” Or words to that effect.
“We didn’t make the rules” she added.
“But you take advantage of the social set up.” I said.
As for the 'Why Men Earn More book [You look up author]
Men take the most dangerous jobs,go to wars recently women have too,and our testosterone tends to have us do
stupid daredevil stuff like skateboarding,drink too much and commit suicide with guns rather than with pills-alcohol,drugs as women do which saves some from the act.
Plus betrayal of the bumbling,fumbling,male in tv commercials.
As for Battered women’s syndrome Battered Men isn’t seen as real even though statistics have risen steady.
Also if laws are closely examined their is a built in bias against males in favor of women.
Women have more choices from having a career, motherhood,going back to the work force.
Few Single or rare Nuclear families with fathers at home are given
choices to leave work for paternity leave though that is slowly changing.
Of course the sport analogy of boxing still holds.
Two equally matched fighters in ability, strength,experience face each other in the ring.
No matter the equal footing if male beats woman fairly he loses in society for beating up a girl.
notice how the woman is reduced to girl.
Yet when she beats the male in the arena she’s haled,held up as proof of superiority over all men not just a contest of athletic prowess.
Yes,some women think and project that way like men.
Think Bobby Riggs and
Billy Jean King
Mismatch of the century with older experienced tennis pro Bobby Riggs and younger experienced Billy Jean King.
Bobby bragged being a womanizer of beating the "little girl"
His testosterone got the better of him,it really wasn't a fair match between equals.
So much was place on which sex was better.
Bobby lost Billy won.
Billy went on to found a magazine,get endorsements while Billy who'd been through that faded out of the public eye.
I wish today's tennis champs men and women truly of equal caliber had a match what would happen.
I’ve seen women hit men in public, been playfully hit in public myself for looking at other women when with on a date.
Men do that so do women, women are less obvious about it.
Women know they can go off (act out,do and say crazy things in public and get away with but for men it isn’t tolerated.)
Don't shake your heads ladies you know its true.
All you need do is check out
[Ball Busting video or movies of women getting their jollies out of hurting men’s floaters Even if it is only an actresses talking there is a note of glee, joy,maniacal fun the way the main one says
“Come On,I Dare You.”
By the way I commend the actress she gets the point across clearly.
I'll probably not ever see her in real life since I'm a bit of a marred frog with a lazy left eye.
I give all women respect that avoids getting my nut sack racked in pain.
About approaching women inappropriately by touch,talk, or even the too long ogle or stare.
No guy should be mistreated unless you really act or are a jerk.
Women we now know will go there,aim for our tender testes if we are dumb sticks in our so called superiority.
Its all about humiliating pain and as for the idiotic guys who are paid for hits to their groin.
There will never be enough money to place my family jewels in such a precarious predicament.
Placing my junk in harms way!
Some things are not worth the humiliation let alone some "accidental” permanent damage inflicted.
Though some guys will do anything for money.
The Social Contract is broken,bent,twisted,not worth seeking if has tilted all the way to one side even if it works for the so called suffering side.
Now men are victims but we’ve been raised to be strong,silent,and if we say enough!
Wimp,wuss,chicken,or worse names starting with C or P will be called out.
I for one have seen the other side of the curtain.
Socially men and women aren't living up to our social contracts.
So I’m opting out of the masculine straight jacket we,society has put us in that may make me a slight loner outlaw of sorts. [Imagine me,non drinker/drug/non sexist- racist,religious zealot -homophobic guy out of step because have I have the balls to refuse following a social norm that women have found ways to use while still calling themselves oppressed & superior simultaneously.]
You’ve tried awfully hard over the decades but you cannot have it both ways
of being downtrodden and have small businesses,be more educated than ever as men fall behind.
If that's your victory over males then its just as unequal and you've lost the very purpose of equality.
Women! Why aren’t you voting for Ms. Hillary Clinton or placing more women drowning men with candidates?
Want to gain power! Use your numbers,money, that so called superior emotional/ intellectual IQ and experience.
Use that cell phone for important stuff than getting out of the odd awkward blind date.
Use the freakin’ technology,infrastructure at hand.
Unless,when it really comes down to you'd rather sit back and let your beloved,son’s,brother’s, uncle’s,hubby’s,fathers.
I mean the good men; you all know there are many more than you let on continue to die!
You know what you have to do!
Take it from men,then recreate a true and equal contract only then can you say we are the superior species.
Hey, I’m just a testosterone driven guy raised by a strong black woman with lessons taught from a few strong,courageous younger rainbow women. What do I know?
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