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Nickel and Dimed

09/24/2021 - 11:12 by Anonymous (not verified)
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A PNN ReVieWsfoRtHeReVolUtion of Nickel and Dimed stage play

by TJ Johnston/PNN Community Journalist

When playwright Joan Holden talked about the San Francisco premiere of her play "Nickel and Dimed," based on Barbara Ehrenreich's nonfiction account of her infiltration of the world of the low-wage worker, she hoped that this production would be "more than a play, but a community event." Holden's dramatization is already developing quite a production history. It premiered at Seattle's Intiman Theater last year and has since trotted the boards at LA, Providence, RI, Minneapolis, Denver, Chicago and elsewhere.
Last weekend, the show opened at the Brava Theater Center following a month-long run at TheatreWorks in Mountain View. Both theaters are co-presenting the show.

I thought about Holden's aspirations of drawing together a community on last Saturday's performance. Joe Bolden, my Poor Magazine colleague, and I observed the diversity of the audience. Joe assessed that the house to be a combination of "money, middle class and no money." Having attended various shows populated by the white, affluent season-subscription crowd, I couldn't agree more. Opening week has already hosted fundraisers for Yes on Prop L, San Francisco's initiative to increase minimum wage, and Health Care for Working Families, a campaign by the California Labor Federation.

The translation from page to stage began when Intiman's artistic director Bart Sher listened to an NPR interview of Ehrenreich about her undercover experiences as a waitress, nursing home aide, maid and Wal-Mart "associate" during the supposed prosperity of the Clinton era. She offhandedly proposed to an editor that someone should get their hands dirty and was quickly assigned the task. Sher decided that it should be a play and commissioned Holden to make it so. The role of Barbara was originated (and is continued to be played) by Sharon Lockwood.

The theatrical version, I must say, is very true to the spirit of the book (and Joe might add that it's true to life). The classic three-act structure was observed where each act represented the stops in Florida, Maine and Minnesota in Barbara's journey. She is aided by an ensemble who double, triple and even quadruple their roles of wage slaves and masters. The players also give new meaning to "running crew" as they adeptly performed quick scenery changes. Among the characters, Susy McInerny stood out as Holly, a Happy Maid who starves for her boss's approval as much as she does physically, and Elizabeth Carter, in her portrayal of housekeeper Carlie, who suspects Barbara to be a spy. The rest of the company (Cristina Anselmo, Julia Brothers, and Rod Gnapp) also find distinct characterizations as principals in the customer service realm. They are ably accompanied by guitarist Michael Goldberg, who put them through their paces as much as director Dan Chumley. A scene at Mall Mart includes a song and dance about the store's "family values." Now, if only Barbara finds out how much they actually pay?

In addition to exploring the nature of shit work (and that topic is literally discussed in a toilet-cleaning scene), Barbara also navigates a difficult course of limited housing and food options. She houses herself in motels and trailers and at one point, avails herself to a food pantry. Projected titles of hourly pay and weekly rent inform what little employees must work with, but Barbara's trenchant observations ("the less you have, the more everything costs you") drives it home.

"Nickel and Dimed" isn't content on just being a latter-day living newspaper. At one point, the actors break the fourth wall and ask the audience who has ever hired a cleaning person and how much they paid them. Rates ranged from $15 to $20 an hour and after a debate among the actors, they concurred that dirty jobs should pay the most!

Barbara initially confronts her middle-class privilege, but the succession of service sector subservience takes its toll. Where manufactured personality exams and drug tests fail, power-tripping bosses and arbitrary rules assault her dignity. "How deep is the corrosive nature of humiliation?" she ponders. "How many times can you bend before the damage sets in---repetitive stress of the spirit?" Even when she stands up for her co-workers, they suspect her of ulterior motives. On the rare occasions where Barbara reveals herself, her co-workers are nonplussed.

"Nickel and Dimed" in its theatrical incarnation has legs and moves so sprightly, its two-hour-plus running time escaped my notice. It engages its audience and celebrates the people who Barbara calls "our major philanthropists" who subsidizes the comfort of others at their own expense. Thinking back to Holden's comments about creating a community event, I must conclude "mission accomplished."

Nickel and Dimed, a co-production by Brava! For Women in the Arts and TheatreWorks, will run at the Brava Theater Center at 2789 24th St (cross street, York) in San Francisco. The show runs through Nov. 9. Showtimes are Wednesdays through Saturdays at 8pm and Sundays at 3pm. Admission is $26 on Wednesdays, $28 on Thursdays and Sundays and $32 on Fridays and Saturdays. Tickets are available at the box office, (415) 647-2822 or www.brava.org. Call Merle Goldstone for group sales, (415) 291-9566. Discounts are available for students, seniors, disabled and union members.

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CyLost In Chatrooms. Electronic Buildings Made Of Voices.

09/24/2021 - 11:12 by Anonymous (not verified)
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From Nubie to Regular
in a few months, still learning.

by Joe B.

A few months ago my internet adventure has begun.

There’s no way to explain how many dumb errors were made in hundreds if not thousands of attempts at logging in at various date sites and though it would be against the law to reveal said sites.

I can say most of them were adult sites and a few were strictly literary where I said in columns what I could not at my regular work site.

The two sites with help from emails to me help me through a difficult time both social and economic.

The first lesson learned is writing down all User,Screen,and or Password names down or its forgotten after disuse or if one is on too many online dating sites.

Images or photo’s took me longer more than a few months first because of crippling self doubt about my own physical looks and second I have few digital photo’s but finally did place one on a few sites.

In chat rooms I pride myself on being honest to a fault but forgot most people do not use their real names but User or Screen names so did I but after at time when chatting became somewhat frustrating because either I kept losing the thread of conversations or the PC would boot me off the system.

So green was I that people did IM me [instant messaging]
Written diction is not as important as being understood,which didn’t make sense until I heard on a sit com TV shows correct spelling is a negative showing to youth of older persons online while misspellings and coded words that youths may use is seen as a positive aspect.

Then there’s Cyber Sex.

I’ve heard the term but didn’t quite know the meaning until I did it myself in chat rooms.

The women there know what I speak of.

I’m the so called weird guy that wrote X-R rated suggestive scenarios from the fantasy job of massaging women and being seduced by them,to wild women on motorcycles being sexually aggressive to men they pick up.

This I though of as erotic online chats not cyber sex with web- camera’s where both parties see each other nude.

I’m informed its all cyber sex.

I thank the women for their indulgence and will not use online pseudonyms.

At the time it was highly embarrassing not only that my mind came up with those stories but that a few them were true.

Then I really went crazy going to lets say sex for sex sake where women and men really want physically hook up and being online is just a faster way of meet-greet- be-discreet for intimate fun.

No, didn’t hook up with any ladies yet and if I did I certainly wouldn’t tell gntle M’s don’t at least that’s the way I was raised.

So what have I learned?
1) Find the sites that fits your personality.

2) Reveal little as possible about self but be truthful.

3) Keep all names,sites, dates, on hard copy.

4) Listen first before write/talking online.

5) Have sense of fun, set hrs. don’t get addicted.

6) Be aware of other sensibilities, be helpful.

7) Read Chat etiquette, rules, ask when in doubt

I learned in virtual realms people are as lonely,lead other lives, want to connect as in real world,and are as
bewildered in the online world as anywhere else.

What will I be doing after my home is PC fixed and have a web cam connection?

It will be face to face without nudity unless we really trust each other doing that.

I always think there’s some unseen third party peeking in on everyone online maybe I’m paranoid but maybe its true!

That F.B.I. carnivore program hasn’t been destroyed just not talked about as much which makes me think its still working stealthy through all the integrated internet connections.

To the guy’s online who’ve warmly welcomed me thank you also though primarily I was there strictly to date and be intimate with females. The men were very kind treating me with gruff, tough love.

At one point I became a greeter for new people coming online and cooling down arguments.

I still don’t know if the Boudoir (Finally spelled it right!) became full in daytime as well as night was my doing after trying out a test or has it always been full?

Anyway it was a frustrating,exasperating, also exhilarating,time and was/is worth all the goofs I made fumbling through also at the same time I was getting my teeth cleaned, scraped,and worried about an upcoming operation.

I’d like to tell them I’m keeping them stain free, eating less meat, and found a place to learn Salsa dancing. (cannot tell where only that its in the City.)

If I with my inept way can get have women talk, I M me then anyone can do it.

And if any of the men or ladies from the online date site is reading this column,could you tell them where to find it so they can email me without going through the date site. I know, Joe you a sneaky devil.

Well,that’s it and though I may rarely talk about chat rooms or cyber sex I’ll check ‘em them out and what happens discreetly between me and others in future will not be known to anyone they and I,as I’ve said before gentlemen never tell.

Any online folks at those date sites can if they want can contact me (intimate dating I hope, no kidding).

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Farm 'n Circus Time. You know what I mean, the Pachyderm and Jackass.

09/24/2021 - 11:12 by Anonymous (not verified)
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Reviving a business that
never got off the ground.

Read,learn,rap,V O T E.

Then Bitch and Moan folks.

by Joe B.

Farm ‘n Circus Time

Its that time again so soon after California’s up-for-grabs who-wants-to- be-governor recall-do over election which Action star Mr. Arnold "The Swartz" is the newly elected California Governor.

The voter information pamphlet arrived in my mailbox a week or so ago and I’ve not read one page.

Better do it before Nov. 4th and get it over with so I can b&m [bitch and moan] than not participating then whining about the result to many unsung ordinary to extraordinary people risked and lost their lives so generations of young folks can vote.

To hear people say "It don’t matter,its all fixed,no time,better things to do."

I’ve heard many excuses, reasons, most of ‘em hogwash except for working poor families and individuals struggling with poverty most of us can take time to read propositions,initiatives, and candidates on the ballot box.

But as we’ve seen money can be an obstacle,green power that gets ballot boxes uncounted, miscounted,lost,dumped in lakes,or machines malfunctioning at crucial moments as votes are being counted.

Aren’t Demo’s,Peace and Freedom,Independent,Green Party,or Cryonics,Life Eternal/Immortalist parties.
[The last ones are parties yet to be created looming on the horizon in the background]. Not taken seriously but just as legitimate as GOP [Grand Old Party] Republicans.

A dear friend of mine says I’m political I say I’m not because though its all around me I tend to get away from it as far away as one sometimes leaves this island city to cross the bay for a few days at time.

Speaking of getaways I’ve decided to get my one-man business up and running again first to have new business cards made up with moderate prices and asking my employer to vouch for my honesty and virtue.

This business is perfect for me its as unique and personal as being a Chef,Physician,or Messuse.

The business is House Sitter.

Two kinds of people truly know the value of homeownership,those having bought their own home and those longing to own but have less equity (money) to buy one.

I being in the latter group living in an S.R.O. [Single Room Occupancy]

The trust factor is intrinsic to the job which includes informing law enforcement,neighbors, friends that someone will be living,watching,and or visiting the home at various times and hours.

Pets would have to get to know the stranger in their mist,if they sense something slightly off it can be really awkward and painful nip on ankle or finger.

After making up business cards, employer vouching,and placing ads in a few newspapers maybe using the net as an added way of self promotion.

My main problem is insurance incase of burglary whether I’m in or out of the home robbed.

I don’t know how that’ll work and feel a little afraid of this part of the biz however its best to inform all parties so minor problems will not turn into bigger ones.

The first time I did housesit years ago in Cordeaia Calif.

It was only 20 dollars for about a week.

In that week I didn’t eat to much food,replaced what I did eat,fed,walked the dog and made sure everything was locked when walking the dog.

Not much of a beginning in an uncertain business but it told me I can do this because I felt while being in that house that it was under my protection.

You may wash dishes, place clothes in closets and make sure pets are taken care of and safely in the house at night it almost seemed to me that the house sighed because this stranger wasn’t changing anything in it but leaving everything the way it was.

Its funny someone else, a relative of one my brother’s friends while watching the home got out of control with food,not cleaning the place,and I was told I was a better steward of their home than their relatives who’ve visited many times and they apologized for paying such a low sum.

A postbox number is needed so if I do get offers of work it won’t go to directly to my home address.

I’ve got three things going for me:
1) A home, any home is precious and should be respected.
2) make arrangements that law enforcement,neighbor, friends, and others know a person has been hired to house sit/watch.
3)Know and work with the pets daily routines.

4)Save earned money to be bonded incase of minor or major damage to the home
5)Client list of new or repeat business.
6)Never be too comfortable because it’s a job and privilege when a person or person(s)leave their home trust to you.

7)Relax,know you are doing a service like anyone else keep written records of transactions.

That’s all folks except its up to all of us to learn the issues,read, discuss,(not until bored to death) and vote.

I you don’t vote don’t bitch and moan about the outcome, and if you do vote and don’t like the outcome then its up to you others to get things started for a change.

As for young people who are Now leaders now, I’m gonna take a long cryo- sleep and if I awaken younger and stronger than when I died/sleep whatever then I may really get into the political process whole hog but that’s in a another life to come if applied science is true to form.

Wish me luck folks in my one-man business venture.

Any tips would be greatly appreciated.

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No B&M/VOTE! Then B/M, It don't mean body movement folks, read on.

09/24/2021 - 11:12 by Anonymous (not verified)
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Its that time again.

Civic duty folks, some of us
died for the ballot from bullets.

VOTE-VOTE-VOTE,if you didn't vote
don't bitch and moan.

by Joe B.

Don’t B &M VOTE! Then B/M Pt. 1

I woke up today determined to do my civic duty and vote early.

Then realized because of a short illness between Thursday and Friday I slept through Halloween thinking it was November first instead of the 31st.

No harm done Tuesday Nov. 4th is the real date and though I can still vote early that was done last September and Gonads ‘uh, Conan became California’s Governor.

Men BM’ing about changing mores of America, Women BM’ing on same yet most of whom don’t go and vote when the time comes.

I’m always saying if you don’t vote don’t bitch and moan,when you do vote then you’ve got a legit beef to bitch and moan because you have participated in the system.

Women,still not on par with men economically but they still don’t pay to get into dance clubs, bars,or certain kinds of parties simply because they are women isn’t fair either.

I notice in club scenes women don’t pay cover charges for entry,drinks, when society makes its to their advantage saying "You don’t have to pay" isn’t that as patronizing, patriarchal because men own most of the clubs an are trying get as many bodies in the club as they can?

Strange, how if all things being equal male strippers could be making equal amounts of money as females but women have it sown up and in adult films women can still lay,moan, and fake their O’s while men must spew or have simulated jell like liquid timed to seemly escape from them.

Women still live longer, marry later or not at all unlike men marrying quickly.

Women find freedom after a marriage ends or death of a spouse.

It has been said cynically the men need women more than women need men even to the point of women extracting their sperm for motherhood without father’s!

Problem is they still need that male essence from us however if we refuse them maybe they wouldn’t see as such near useless child like beings.

When women change their minds they call it their prerogative,men do it its called being wish washy something is very unequal about this sort of thinking.

Women have asked, begged,cajoled, teased men to change their habits, thoughts,ethics,and it took a long time to do it but many have and for that if men went to far became doormats,crybabies,or wimps.

This is exactly why men don’t emoted much not only because of early socialization but also when we do share are deepest emotive side almost invariably its used to be little us,verbal/ psychological weapons against us.

Women tell each other their inter most thoughts secrets and fears there is little or no repercussions not so for men.

We do the exact same and derision,laughter,and cruelty is the result comes ironically from the self same women who asked for the honesty.

Most women don’t really want to know what truly is in men’s hearts if they did they wouldn’t gush over ugly rock stars, beautiful models as eye candy.(I know it’s a fem thing).

It shows women are visually stimulated to they just hide it better. It’s the old Pornography /Erotica.

Porn is male= Dirty and direct while Erotic is Soft,Clean and loving yet most women asked by men if they want to be loved or F’d you get the rough four letter word I'm confused.

Women say they want to be respected,treated like princesses,queens but the minute a man treats her thus they begin to wonder what’s wrong him instead of basking in the glow of pampered treatment they question it,they the question it so much they make the male give up and then wonder why he no longer does it.

I wonder,all things when and if they’ll ever be equal as men begin taking better care of themselves living longer (and we will eventually).

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Reckonning Day Or B/M Tuesday Pt. 2 Yes, Today We Vote.

09/24/2021 - 11:12 by Anonymous (not verified)
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Early or late Civic
duty time everyone.

Done mine early...

Lazy prasmatic whatever
happens it can always get worse or
be better.

by Joe B.

Reckonning Day Or B/M Tuesday Pt.2

I’m wondering as men live longer with more choices among younger, mature,and older healthier women,less pressure from deadening jobs,career’s.

Will women still be clubbing for free or chose to be really independent of men and have their own clubs where men and women take turns for free cover charge and drinks.

Everyone’s Bitching and Moaning about not having this or that,being kept down,well Grrrrs,Women, Wimmin,Girls,of all sexual orientations time to stop whining,get your collective left/right in tandem hemisphere’s together,you know=C.B.M. Critica Brain Mass.

Come on,ladies,your always yammering (yeah, I said yammering about men power this, Cromag this,or Neanderthal that,your no longer as oppressed as your great, great grandmother, grandmother,not even your mother is as oppressed so do what men do just flip it and do it your way.

You have organizations, clubs, secret places,own some big businesses, corporations,and still live longer barring you ladies seek help for tell tale signs of cardiac arrest,ladies you have advantages,use 'em,the whaling whine of "Woe is us,you’ve fooled,tricked, bamboozled men out of money,into marriage with false fatherhood then devastate us by admitting different man,men as fathers.

Your sex is not biologically, physically,spiritually,or mentally, weak and since you really don’t know what you want, always dissatisfied with your lot even when you can have most if not all you want some of you always find ways of self sabotage then blame hapless males who don't know what the heck we did wrong this time.

I notice most of the time its so obscure we've no clue because its in your minds where we fail and you don't straight tell us but get even more esoteric dredging up long what we thought long dead memories.

Is it any wonder we don’t listen because you don’t listen to yourselves!

If you don’t know your own inner drives,psyche, don’t blame us when we don't get it;we’ll always get it wrong as long as you keep flipping the script.

Truth be know women still don’t know themselves and instead of working on that blame men it’s an old vicious circle and many now refuse to take the no-win ride.

Better take advantage of whatever assets you have besides sex which only goes so far brainpower goes on forever.

Notice how men even those who aren’t batterer’s hardly talk in arguments with you anymore we shut down knowing one call from you and we’re in jail even if its a false accusation its too easy to say "He brutalized me with crockadile tear which makes in worse on your real battered sister's.

Most men say as little as possible because y’all don’t really know yourselves so you really don’t know men and the few you do are changing in ways you don’t understand.

Why is as men free themselves of gender roles it is the women who begin to balk?

Could it be that some of those old G-roles women wish to keep? Not paying for drinks entering free into dance clubs comes to mind.

Women,no mix and match,you cannot have it both way as you've accused men for so long of doing and were guilty of equality is a two way junction.

Women have agitated, fought,died,voted,for fair and equal treatment though its taken a long time with setbacks you must deal with its consequences as men have to.

So ladies,do what men have done grab,keep, control,then the hard part share it equally which we men don’t do well.

I believe women are as corruptible,sexually insatiable and as insensitive at times as men are you just hide it with code words,gestures, and socialized to be better at it women do can get away with more.

Consider women can kiss each other,love each other, wear male clothes, let emotions go,and it’s all good.

Men cannot ware women’s clothes,love, kiss each other without threat of bodily harm or imminent death,or let our emotions go and society which is made up of men and women will do their best to squelch,clamp down, and crush it.

Maybe women will be better in power positions so stop protesting making noise and stealthily do it Women,you know how sneaky you are so stop yakking, get your power as old white male dominance fades but don’t replace their dominance with your own or you will have proven my point:

Women can be equally bad leaders too which just means men and women were always equally matched, one cannot survive without the other no matter which takes each others eggs or sperm equal amounts of both creates life.


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PERFECT MEN, WOMEN. I know, no such animal, unless you've found your's and keep it secret.

09/24/2021 - 11:12 by Anonymous (not verified)
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Its late,Wed's my day
off,Volunteer at Glide M.

Same night free Salsa/Merengue
at Fisherman's Wharf Nuff said.

by Joe B.

PERFECT MEN,WOMEN.

I’ve been thinking a little about perfection and what a perfect woman or man.

What would they look like, their childhood’s if not coming fully grown, programmed with the qualities that would deem them perfect.

There are perfect men and women or each other the trick is finding them when we’re scattered all over the earth in different era’s, countries,cultures, societies,and or sexual orientations.

Yes,parent,nature/ nurture,environments lived in count mightily also.

Soul mates do find each other but time,experience may make them blind to each others inner being.

Perfect souls for each other depends on how they get along,willing to commit,compromise for the other.

What happens when if an independently wealthy women finds her soulmate in a shelter or standing in the lunch line.

Even if they get along and he treats her the way she deserves they may never get together unless he can get up and out of poverty with some help from her or none at all.

Here’s what I see.

There is a perfect woman for every man,and visa versa that goes for same sex couples and all sexual variations in between. [that covers the he’s bias against other orientations that aren’t straight thinking.]

Where was I… Oh, what if a woman or man who has found their soul mate but tragically they had died young,old,or are alive but at different ends of aging spectrum.

What if applied science was advanced enough to grant not only time but parallel travel as well.

One could pinpoint the birth,see the growing, and first blossoming of their learning about love,lust, and sex from others then intervene especially if their first experience of rape be they male or female.

How many times would one choose to be their loved ones first love over and over.

You would know him or her’s every move,what they like,their favorite music,
stars,movie,everything and can seem to them perfect in their eyes.

You could even marry them and might have a happy ever after life except do you tell your beloved who you really are?

Either 10 ten or 30 years of marriage would you tell him/her the lengths you went to have her in your life?

If he/she knew how would they react with joy, revulsion,or think it all an elaborate charade?

What if you waited until you were both old, gray haired.

The shock of it could hasten your loved one to the grave.

Then it’s back to the rejuvenation center and taking the rusty time/dimension machine making the proper repairs and it back to do over again and not making the mistake of telling them the truth.

I’m not looking for a perfect soul mate but someone who likes me for me,to spend time with, which does not mean marriage these days; I don’t living in lusty deep loving sin for a few decades.

The only way men and women can become perfected is to live a few thousand years and learning all the ways of love,empathy, compassion,passion, travel,jobs,careers,and all the joys with losing friends,loved ones, families along the way.

After that if one had not learned deep empathy for others,cannot think of people other than sexual lustful ways and does not practice ancient romantic arts then…
no matter how long one has live their life is meaningless,just a succession of hours,days, weeks,and centuries.

Perfect takes time.

For we mortals our lives run as water through a sieve every drop is precious and should never be wasted and if humankind kept this upper most in their minds before arguing with the ones they love then maybe we’d take more time thinking,respecting each other with higher concern making sex more than body mechanics but the expertise of the highest caring of each for the other when this happens sex,lust, transcends to mutual joy of each other.

Sex is wonderful alone, but sex combined with real love can be a transcendent experience but it takes two committed human’s of whatever sexual orientation to create joy, I’m not talking creating life but the simple fun, purity of the act itself.

Since I’m a heterosexual male, hopelessly so-doomed to love women only be they lesbian or straight,bi,or in damaged-hate-men-until -finding-the-one-who’ll-treat-them like-the- Goddesses-they are.

I may have said too much but what the heck if anyone Man,Women,or anyone else has questions you know the drill folks.… Bye.


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No Column, Letter. Its a long open letter to online folks I spoken to.

09/24/2021 - 11:12 by Anonymous (not verified)
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Just saying thanks.

Revealling myself to those
while not doing same...

Unless one reads between the lines.

by Joe B.

This is no column only a pleasant call across the Continent and closer to home for a few people.

Dear Ms. Zelda I am still rotten at Instant Messages but still at it.

Got Angel-C online while looking for Zelda.

For a two young women one in Dakar,S the other in V,Primerje. Russia. Both intelligent,young beauties so far away and to young for me even contemplate as anything more than close friends.

My view: most if not all women in their mid twenties with few exceptions are ready for serious or semi serious emotional relationships they must explore themselves,relationships and the world beyond them before permanent couplings and even after that must continue growing sometimes leaving spouses.

Now for those that may or may not know here are my user or screen names save one because she questioned my possible banning from an adult date finding site.
[A buzz all over these sites about said mystery person].

SFGntM, Gemogazm, Pryml Pasion, Endurguy, Oblio, ObliO, OblioB, Eternis, Eternihope, JoeGntle, JoeGntleM,also Trianglap,

There are more but cannot remember all of them.

Below is email contact may this help many and for me reduce spam and have folks write me telling me how good, bad, or they don’t care how I’m doing.

For the women who did lively chat me up in patio, lobby, or boudoir; it was a sensuous, auditory delight, helped me in my dancing.

Guys too Thanks to you all. Bye.


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Nite Road Trip Pt 1. Not against Road Trips... Didn't know I was on one is all.

09/24/2021 - 11:12 by Anonymous (not verified)
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The Only Road Trip I want is...

Van/Bus full or horny straight or
lesbian stripper's all needing built up
tention relief!

by Joe B.

Sunday,a blur as I woke up early walking to the office on Polk and Pine Street to bring my computer and monitor back home.

6 am in the morning trudging up Polks colorful street with more colorful people.

A few night ladies out in hot shorts,bare legged looking to pick up customers.

I’ve never paid because I never had the money to pay for their services.

Up a flight of stairs, unlocked the door and I find my PC in the same place as before so out I go back home but thinking of those hard working women I decided to give ‘em my Poor Magazine card if they have issues to speak to about their lives,business,how,why, they chose it.

No solicitation on my part it would be their byline about them and I or someone else wouldn’t change their words just make it clearer.

On to St. Martin De Porres for a free nutritious meat or vegetarian meal.

Slept a bit, called my boss making sure to get to the Digital Resistance/ Poor Press Book Release Party. New Writers like Mr. Brandon Jones ‘SPITTIN FLAMES., Mr. Oji Volume 1, Ms. Carmi L. Johnson’s Wasted Water’s [Her struggle to be heard on racist injustice in the workplace.

Also Ms. Matrice Candler, Marvin Crutchfield,Dharma,Willie Warren,David Smith,Mari, Jewnbug, A. Faye Hicks, Leroy Moore,Charles Pitts, Byron Gafford and Joseph Bolden.

Lots of people, many unique voices.

My first error was going up to the office then leaving when I should’ve stayed for another person coming to the office.

Going to the library I realized I would be able to meet a lady I had chatted to online.

Writing that I’m the guy waring a rainbow hat but since I had to go back to the office make sure the person in question is able to get into the office before this however I was helping bring food to the San Francisco’s Main Library’s lower level conference room turn into a stage and podium for artists, spoken, wordsmiths.

I don’t know if the lady I had invited arrived or may have cancelled at the last minute because of something beyond her control which happens all the time.

I met a very lovely woman she’s a friend of Carmi from Oakland the lady I had invited is from Berkeley.

Dumbest thing I did is leave my hat in case the lady came by that way my strange logic said he was here but had to leave, she may have been in the audience,saw me and decide not to meet me;I don’t know maybe next time we’ll meet in Berkeley where she knows where to go.

The same night Leroy Moore,Mari,Tiny,David Smith,Charles Pitts,and Joseph Bolden(me) are in a Tiny’s van and soon where all on some kind of flight into the night.
End of Nite Road Trip Part 1

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Taiko Love for Arnold

09/24/2021 - 11:12 by Anonymous (not verified)
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(from his adoring masses)

by Christina Heatherton/PNN Poverty Studies Intern

Ja! Ja!

A-nold. A-nold.

Ja! Ja!

A-nold. A-nold.

You are great

Und powerful man

Surrounded by

Adorning fans

Just like Hitler!

Arnold Nation!

Fame without

Extermination!

Ja-Ja-Ja-Ja/ Ja-Ja-Ja-Ja

Ja-Ja-Ja-Ja

Ja!

Ve hear you meet

Mit Kenneth Lay

Und Enron help

Herr Arnold play

To get Grey Davis

Out of plan

(Cause he vas ein sissy man!)

Sex-u-al-isch Pred-a-tor?

Die Pansy pants-

Sie just want more

So Grope-n-Poke-n

Call it Joke!

Denn we say

Ja! Ja! Ja! Ja!

A-nold. A-nold.

Ja. Ja. Ja.

After school

Help children play

So der flab can melt avay

Never mind

De education


Use tax for

Incarceration!

Kids are tough

Dey take the heat

Dey’ll loose weight

Ven starved and beat!

Say hasta la vista

See you later

To da Jealous castigators

Come on loosers

Don't be haters

Here's to our new

GOVENATOR!

Ja! Ja!

A-nold. A-nold.

Ja! Ja!

JA!

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Not Beholden to the Machine

09/24/2021 - 11:12 by Anonymous (not verified)
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an interview with mayoral candidate Matt Gonzalez

by Janak Ramachandran/PNN

Walking into the Matt Gonzalez for Mayor campaign headquarters, I can feel the hairs on my neck tickling my shirt—I feel as though an enormous adrenaline rush is coursing through this campaign organization. With his second place upset in the November 4th mayoral race, the momentum behind Gonzalez on the streets of San Francisco seems palpable. His campaign headquarters, located at 13th and Mission where the old Fell Street off-ramp has been razed, seems to match the ‘down with old and in with the new’ energy of the place. Excited campaign volunteers, smelling the victory that would put Matt Gonzalez in the mayor’s chair, work feverishly to compensate for the business money machine that Gavin Newsom, Gonzalez’ opponent in the December 9th run-off election, has marshaled to his side.

As I prepared to meet Matt, the current President of the Board of Supervisors of San Francisco, I am afforded the opportunity to tour the location. Gonzalez’ meetings are behind schedule and so my interview with him has been delayed. If a campaign headquarters can say something about the person for whom it exists, this location wears itself on its sleeve. The buzz about the place is honest and hardworking and the atmosphere is neighborly and unpretentious. Interestingly, these are the very qualities that shine through in my conversation with Matt Gonzalez. Soft-spoken but confident, he speaks with a passion fueled by intelligent deliberation.

In response to an opening question on being a progressive candidate, Matt identifies one worldview from which he wants to govern. "I fundamentally look at the world as a place where there are wide economic disparities and…if we’re trying to make it a better society…we ought to be working to protect the most vulnerable people in that society. (S)ometimes progressive values intersect with neighborhood values (and) populist values—sometimes they’re conservative economic values. We (progressives) want good, clean, efficient government as well." Matt explains further that the money he saves from instituting clean and efficient practices would be earmarked for important societal priorities while a more conservative candidate might want simply to put the money into their pocketbook or the pocketbooks of their friends.

One of the priorities that Matt Gonzalez championed in the recent election, Proposition L, now enables the minimum wage in San Francisco to be raised to $8.50/hour. I ask Matt to expound upon living wage law and the notion of economic justice. "I’m supportive of efforts to try to pay people the value of their labor…a municipality, a state, or federal government has an obligation to make sure that wages don’t fall beneath a certain level…(people) just can’t make a living—can’t even eke out a living." And, though Matt explains that he is proud of fighting the business community and the wealthier elite to help fifty thousand workers, he wants to do more. "(A)t the end of the day, it’s like we captured a hill—we didn’t take the mountain."

Now that he’s mentioned the business community and the wealthier classes, I decide to challenge Matt regarding his ability to occupy the mayor’s office without towing the line of the elite and powerful. And so, I ask, "Do you acknowledge that you will be pressured by wealthier interests to put them first? How will you react to that pressure?" Though he acknowledges that the pressure will exist, he confidently asserts that he will not be swayed. "The business community is accustomed to being able to tell the mayor what to do—I fear that my opponent (Gavin Newsom) is not strong enough to stand up to that community. And so, that’s more than anything why I’m in the race and why I think it’s important that people vote for me—that they vote for somebody who has the intelligence and courage to say no to some of the people that are accustomed to driving policy in this city." In a later follow-up question, I inquire about Matt’s thoughts regarding a recent Bayview editorial’s assertion that a climate of corruption has existed for the last eight years under Mayor Willie Brown’s administration; where the ‘people accustomed to driving policy’ have been and are feeding at the hands of Willie Brown. I ask pointedly if, as mayor, he would investigate prior corruption and seek a legal remedy. "I think corruption in government is something that ought to be rooted out—I would certainly be a mayor that had that as a priority…I don’t think there should be an excuse for crimes, if they’ve been committed, simply because you’re not in office anymore."

Transitioning from the possible crimes of the mayor to the crimes of the SFPD, I mention that it has been recently suggested by an SF Weekly article that Proposition H, the police oversight measure, will do little to stop police brutality. He responds, "the biggest problem with most commissions is that they’re all mayoral appointments…the mayor appoints the department head and you have no checks and balances. All the power is in the mayor’s lap…Placing different kinds of people on a commission from different appointing authorities (Proposition H strips the mayor’s office of some of its appointing authority and grants appointments to the SF Board of Supervisors) will insure that there are different points of view…" Gonzalez believes Proposition H will provide the balance required to give the OCC (Office of Citizen Complaints) the teeth needed to effectively pursue police crimes.

I wonder to myself if this balance will also help prevent the criminalization of poor people—where police brutality and Propositions like Prop N and Prop M have become the norm (Prop N is the ‘Care Not Cash’ initiative sponsored by Gavin Newsom that drew increasing criticism for stripping cash subsidies from homeless and under-housed citizens of San Francisco while failing to deliver on the promised services and housing; Prop M is the recently passed anti-panhandling measure—again sponsored by Gavin Newsom—to criminalize asking for help). Knowing that Matt Gonzalez opposed both Proposition M and N, I invite his comments on the initiatives sponsored by his mayoral opponent. "I think it’s just a waste of time to run a campaign…to speak in favor of an anti-panhandling measure when there’s already one on the books that the voters approved in 1992. I never heard the sponsor, my opponent in the mayor’s race, explain why we needed yet another panhandling law and, I suppose, if I were a better politician, I would just draft my own and take it to the ballot next year…(its passage) proves a certain degree of frustration with our society (and) the inability to right some of the inequities. So I…take a vote like that—a 60-40 vote—and look at it that way…it’s people voicing their frustration with government rather than wanting to attack the poor." If Gonzalez is right, then another backlash (like the one that stymied Proposition N) from San Francisco citizens, some of who may have approved Propositions M and N, can be expected. And Newsom may be forced to backpedal on Proposition M much the way he did on Proposition N.

Another ‘criminalization of the poor’ issue receiving greater scrutiny involves the long standing practice of CPS (Child Protective Services), in conjunction with DSS (Department of Social Services), to remove children from their parents for frivolous reasons (e.g. based solely on income considerations, temporary personal crisis, or hearsay evidence) and to deny the reinstatement of parental rights when the requirements dictated by CPS have been met. When I inform Matt Gonzalez that POOR Magazine, through the investigative journalism of its subsidiaries Courtwatch and Poor News Network, has determined that an incentive system—where funding for CPS is directly tied to the number of children the agency finds reasons to remove—motivates and encourages CPS workers to separate children from their families, he concurs that such a system strikes him as problematic. "I think, as a general matter, you want kids with their parents or with their families and so, I think that kind of removal action is a very serious matter and should not be taken…lightly."

When I mention to Gonzalez the concerns of POOR Magazine writers and other economic justice advocates regarding not only the criminalization of poor people that Newsom seems to be pursuing (by sponsoring measures like M and N) but the direct police harassment and brutality toward people living in cars and on the streets, he nods his head in understanding. "We’ve had a number of people come to city hall and testify about the manner of harassment that the police have engaged in…if you’ve got a crisis in your city where you don’t have a sufficient number of shelter beds or places to put people, you cannot attack somebody’s effort at taking care of themselves…(I’ve) met a number of people who went through periods where they lived in a car and eventually…are able to get back on their feet. It (living in a car) might be the last step before you’re right on the street. And so, I think it’s a very serious matter—I think it’s counterproductive…to allow law enforcement to engage in something that is, in effect, mandating homelessness." 

Matt Gonzalez believes that providing real services that prevent desperate measures like panhandling is the fiscally healthy and truly caring solution. "(Panhandling) is fundamentally a societal problem about the inability to care for people who have problems or (to whom we’re) not giving decent wages…" Gonzales claims that, as long as money for services is spent responsibly, more fortunate San Franciscans have a desire to see some of their taxes used to address issues of poverty and homelessness. "(W)e’re trying to get people back on their feet—and, in cases where that’s not possible, put them in good living arrangements with supportive services so that their lives are meaningful…"

Gonzalez is also interested in "empowering tenants of public housing." When I ask if he would support tenant ownership of public housing, he responds enthusiastically, "I think it’s great—I’ve always been a supporter of land trust type models and limited equity models." When I indicate the recent efforts of developers to create more higher rent facilities, Matt continues with quiet passion regarding the trend toward gentrification in San Francisco. "(W)hen you allow a bunch of developers to come in and ignore housing needs and just build office space that’s going to attract more people to compete for existing housing…you’re going to end up with such fierce competition for the housing (that) people making money on the lower end of the spectrum just can’t…survive. To build low-income housing really requires a commitment by the city." Gonzalez’ plan would make property available to non-profit developers or other developers that want to build low-income housing. "You can do it at thirty, forty, fifty percent of the median area income. That’s a lot better than Newsom’s promise of a work force housing initiative (at) eighty, one hundred, one hundred and twenty percent of median income. That doesn’t (reach)…the lower ends of the median income spectrum."

Given Mayor Willie Brown’s current attempts to create a sweet developer deal for his corporate allies with the Bayview/Hunter’s Point Naval Shipyard (see ‘Land Grabs’ Bayview editorial dated November 5, 2003), I ask Gonzalez’ opinion of this specific development issue. "I think that the primary problem with the whole navy shipyard turns on the fact that there’s…uncertainty about whether or not that property is in a sufficiently clean state to start developing. (T)hese developers don’t have the best interests in mind of the future occupants of that property." Regarding the efforts of the Redevelopment Agency and the Housing Authority to control the Bayview area, Matt comments that "there was a proposal…that the Bayview be its own kind of redevelopment site in and of itself with (its) own commissioners—and not be subject to the powers of the redevelopment agency—that it be a different Bayview/Hunters Point redevelopment agency." Gonzalez believes that, if such a plan was configured to create direct neighborhood empowerment, it may be useful.

Since empowering lower income neighborhoods is a priority for Matt Gonzalez, I ask his views concerning the light rail project and whether he would fight to keep those jobs within the Bayview/Hunter’s Point community. "Despite the promises of (community based hiring practices), we so often (end up) with just commuter jobs that we’re creating. I’ve always thought that…it (the light rail project) was an opportunity to hire people in the community to do those jobs. So I’m very supportive of the first source hiring program."

As we conclude the interview, I turn to a national issue that affects San Franciscans and ask Matt how far he would be willing to go to protect San Francisco residents from the intrusions of the federal government and the increased powers it has appropriated to itself via laws like the PATRIOT act. Gonzalez says he will support the measure on the March ballot that fellow Supervisor Jake McGoldrick has sponsored that would give the Board of Supervisors the power to oppose possible invasions of privacy and the like by federal authorities. "(W)e would take the political and legal onus on ourselves…I’m very opposed to an act that purports to be about patriotism (but) has so little to do about it—it’s sort of like ‘Care Not Cash’ (Gavin Newsom’s Proposition N) having so little to do with really addressing the true problems of homelessness. (T)he PATRIOT act is an assault on civil liberties that I think future generations will look upon to say, ‘how was it possible that these people…didn’t see what a terrible travesty and undermining of their values that it was.’"

Finally, I invite Matt Gonzalez to tell San Francisco voters (and particularly San Francisco democrats) why they should vote for him over Gavin Newsom. He notes that he already has the support of many democrats (Gonzalez is a member of the Green Party) including members of the Democratic County Central Committee "because, as one of them said, ‘I’m the best democrat in the race.’" Noting some differences between him and a more traditional democratic candidate, he asserts, "I’ve certainly worked with many progressive democrats but…the democrats (as a party) have never fielded a presidential candidate that was opposed to the death penalty or supportive of gay marriage (as is Matt Gonzalez). For me, it’s really about charting a different course—perhaps (a) more independent one locally—(that’s) not beholden to the machine."

When I hear the word ‘machine’, I am reminded of a conversation during which a San Francisco resident explained to me why he had shifted his allegiance from Gavin Newsom to Matt Gonzalez. "The more I listen to Gavin Newsom," he said, "the more I realize he’s just part of the political and corporate machine." And Matt Gonzalez, especially after hearing him in debate with Newsom, strikes him as a far more sincere and competent man. People say there is a clear choice in the December 9th election—perhaps the choice is as clear as man versus machine.

As of press time PNN has contacted Gavin Newsom several times for an interview and he has not responded to our requests. 

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