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by Joe B. PERFECT MEN,WOMEN. I’ve been thinking a little about perfection and what a perfect woman or man. What would they look like, their childhood’s if not coming fully grown, programmed with the qualities that would deem them perfect. There are perfect men and women or each other the trick is finding them when we’re scattered all over the earth in different era’s, countries,cultures, societies,and or sexual orientations. Yes,parent,nature/ nurture,environments lived in count mightily also. Soul mates do find each other but time,experience may make them blind to each others inner being. Perfect souls for each other depends on how they get along,willing to commit,compromise for the other. What happens when if an independently wealthy women finds her soulmate in a shelter or standing in the lunch line. Even if they get along and he treats her the way she deserves they may never get together unless he can get up and out of poverty with some help from her or none at all. Here’s what I see. There is a perfect woman for every man,and visa versa that goes for same sex couples and all sexual variations in between. [that covers the he’s bias against other orientations that aren’t straight thinking.] Where was I… Oh, what if a woman or man who has found their soul mate but tragically they had died young,old,or are alive but at different ends of aging spectrum. What if applied science was advanced enough to grant not only time but parallel travel as well. One could pinpoint the birth,see the growing, and first blossoming of their learning about love,lust, and sex from others then intervene especially if their first experience of rape be they male or female. How many times would one choose to be their loved ones first love over and over. You would know him or her’s every move,what they like,their favorite music, You could even marry them and might have a happy ever after life except do you tell your beloved who you really are? Either 10 ten or 30 years of marriage would you tell him/her the lengths you went to have her in your life? If he/she knew how would they react with joy, revulsion,or think it all an elaborate charade? What if you waited until you were both old, gray haired. The shock of it could hasten your loved one to the grave. Then it’s back to the rejuvenation center and taking the rusty time/dimension machine making the proper repairs and it back to do over again and not making the mistake of telling them the truth. I’m not looking for a perfect soul mate but someone who likes me for me,to spend time with, which does not mean marriage these days; I don’t living in lusty deep loving sin for a few decades. The only way men and women can become perfected is to live a few thousand years and learning all the ways of love,empathy, compassion,passion, travel,jobs,careers,and all the joys with losing friends,loved ones, families along the way. After that if one had not learned deep empathy for others,cannot think of people other than sexual lustful ways and does not practice ancient romantic arts then… Perfect takes time. For we mortals our lives run as water through a sieve every drop is precious and should never be wasted and if humankind kept this upper most in their minds before arguing with the ones they love then maybe we’d take more time thinking,respecting each other with higher concern making sex more than body mechanics but the expertise of the highest caring of each for the other when this happens sex,lust, transcends to mutual joy of each other. Sex is wonderful alone, but sex combined with real love can be a transcendent experience but it takes two committed human’s of whatever sexual orientation to create joy, I’m not talking creating life but the simple fun, purity of the act itself. Since I’m a heterosexual male, hopelessly so-doomed to love women only be they lesbian or straight,bi,or in damaged-hate-men-until -finding-the-one-who’ll-treat-them like-the- Goddesses-they are. I may have said too much but what the heck if anyone Man,Women,or anyone else has questions you know the drill folks.… Bye. Email: askjoe@poormagazine.org |