Its that time again. Civic duty folks, some of us VOTE-VOTE-VOTE,if you didn't vote
died for the ballot from bullets.
don't bitch and moan.
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by Joe B. Don’t B &M VOTE! Then B/M Pt. 1 I woke up today determined to do my civic duty and vote early. Then realized because of a short illness between Thursday and Friday I slept through Halloween thinking it was November first instead of the 31st. No harm done Tuesday Nov. 4th is the real date and though I can still vote early that was done last September and Gonads ‘uh, Conan became California’s Governor. Men BM’ing about changing mores of America, Women BM’ing on same yet most of whom don’t go and vote when the time comes. I’m always saying if you don’t vote don’t bitch and moan,when you do vote then you’ve got a legit beef to bitch and moan because you have participated in the system. Women,still not on par with men economically but they still don’t pay to get into dance clubs, bars,or certain kinds of parties simply because they are women isn’t fair either. I notice in club scenes women don’t pay cover charges for entry,drinks, when society makes its to their advantage saying "You don’t have to pay" isn’t that as patronizing, patriarchal because men own most of the clubs an are trying get as many bodies in the club as they can? Strange, how if all things being equal male strippers could be making equal amounts of money as females but women have it sown up and in adult films women can still lay,moan, and fake their O’s while men must spew or have simulated jell like liquid timed to seemly escape from them. Women still live longer, marry later or not at all unlike men marrying quickly. Women find freedom after a marriage ends or death of a spouse. It has been said cynically the men need women more than women need men even to the point of women extracting their sperm for motherhood without father’s! Problem is they still need that male essence from us however if we refuse them maybe they wouldn’t see as such near useless child like beings. When women change their minds they call it their prerogative,men do it its called being wish washy something is very unequal about this sort of thinking. Women have asked, begged,cajoled, teased men to change their habits, thoughts,ethics,and it took a long time to do it but many have and for that if men went to far became doormats,crybabies,or wimps. This is exactly why men don’t emoted much not only because of early socialization but also when we do share are deepest emotive side almost invariably its used to be little us,verbal/ psychological weapons against us. Women tell each other their inter most thoughts secrets and fears there is little or no repercussions not so for men. We do the exact same and derision,laughter,and cruelty is the result comes ironically from the self same women who asked for the honesty. Most women don’t really want to know what truly is in men’s hearts if they did they wouldn’t gush over ugly rock stars, beautiful models as eye candy.(I know it’s a fem thing). It shows women are visually stimulated to they just hide it better. It’s the old Pornography /Erotica. Porn is male= Dirty and direct while Erotic is Soft,Clean and loving yet most women asked by men if they want to be loved or F’d you get the rough four letter word I'm confused. Women say they want to be respected,treated like princesses,queens but the minute a man treats her thus they begin to wonder what’s wrong him instead of basking in the glow of pampered treatment they question it,they the question it so much they make the male give up and then wonder why he no longer does it. I wonder,all things when and if they’ll ever be equal as men begin taking better care of themselves living longer (and we will eventually). Email: askjoe@poormagazine.org |