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by Joe B.
Last time I was trying to dispel some myths about handsome and ugly guys, talking about cell phones as yet another emotion packed game most women experts at.
I don’t know the protocol of with c-phones.
Though I have it on good authority that its a psycho/emotional power play.
What I’ve observed is sketchy at best not having a cell phone of my own but have seen, how others use them.
One glaring observation, while walking on sidewalks, in cars, in café’s, or restaurants when these phones ring, beep, sing songs, buzz, or vibrate (except for vibrating ones) are disruptive especially at weddings, in movie-opera theaters or any venue where artistic or public endeavors where people gather as a community.
Some people walk slower crossing streets and unlike home where one can loudly speak without being overheard in the street one can get hit by a car.
I hear people talking loudly about supposedly private conversations.
My main discovery in people dating with cell phones in toe.
The cell phone can be used as ongoing commentary on how good/bad a date is going while women or young girls are on dates.
Most men are clueless at being no-second-date-guy.
I never assume a woman will have a second date with me but when it happens it’s a pleasant surprise.
Remember, I mentioned a psycho/emotional context, its confusing but here goes: as usual men and women give out their phone numbers if they like someone sometimes they give each other fake numbers to get rid of those they don’t really care to know at the moment.
It all changes with C-phones.
In bars/dance clubs, or where ever people congregate it still holds true except women can control their love life by handing out their numbers to as many men as they can.
The reason, they give their number is so men become emotionally invested in calling
"We don’t ask, threaten, or force them to call, they just do, its not our fault they get emotional about it."
Yet, isn’t odd that if the men women gave their numbers to don’t call they at a predetermined time (girls/women) get angry at them not calling while describing those that do as "weak, lead by their "smaller heads."
The male sex loses both ways in this phone game condemned because they do want to hook up with women who may or may not necessarily want to date but collect numbers as part of an elaborate "How many can I string along game."
Like the movie "War Games"
When the super computer says "Curious, the best way to win is not to play the game."
Men do learn not to play, loneliness may be a result for awhile but soon a few of the opposite sex also leaves the tired game.
Its like a stacked deck of cards women play with full of aces, kings, queens, ten’s, and deuces.
Men have all low losing cards.
But if men begin leaving the tables empty with women holding all these cards they turn into colorful useless jokers.
Men don’t have to play women’s games as women rarely play men’s men can do the same.
But there are always new players uninformed getting caught in the game they must be warned off earlier and earlier until the phone card game becomes less attractive to both player and played.
Now they may not be thinking that like that at the moment but it happens because men let it happen and woman say their blameless will keep stoking the fire keeping men like moths drawn to light.
All things being equal men do the same more bed partner’s to chose from too.
The Hook: Total control of the dating rules, a c-phone locks in that control even though women say "I’m not doing anything but give numbers to men."
Men feel they must call anyway its up to woman to pass or fail, deciding when or if they call. This is control.
And you wonder why I’m always get all the rejections out of the way so you can have the 1 or 2 yes’s that really see you as you are and is serious and not just play a bed-good by-females.
Women as usual are better at it because they use both left and right sides of hemisphere’s of the brain.
Most men either because of societal or cultural upbringing are trapped with one side more dominant than the other.
I believe men can do this too if we keep switching right to left as women do.
As with everything there always exceptions to every rule.
So, they have lots of male’s to choose from and men have a two or three days to call or they’re deleted from the phones memory.
No fuss, pain, or heated arguments just off-line.
Thing is, for many its mere dalliance to show how desirable they are without doing the actual deed, pre-electron notches of potential lovers.
Men can play the game one of three ways.
1) Play it the way women have it now advantage their’s.
2) Do the same as woman advantage to male’s.
3) Go to same bars/clubs or where ever both sexes mix, see which women collect phone number’s then refuse playing any of the games.
What women and men really think of all the tricks of emotional in-jokes on evolving cell phone power plays? ….Bye
PS, more to come in Pt. 3.
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