Win Win For Women Men, Learn Phone Rules
Lose Lose For Men.
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by Joe B. Ok, Pt. 3 of C-Phones Dating You probably know of the blocking features on c-phones where both parties know who or whom is being blocked. All I can figure is it’s kind of an electronic dog house for men or anyone else making serious errors in relationships. It goes like this "He knows he messed up with me seeing another girls, women, a big blow out argument or missing some important event; so I’ve block access on my phone." Of course this guy is now in an endless loop blocked by a pissed off girlfriend, he keeps dialing up anyway which is what she says she doesn’t want but makes sure he still calls. Paradoxically, the guy might decide to disconnect, unhook himself from his self inflicted hell not knowing the relationship is still viable in her eyes but not saying anything to the guy until she’s ready. My action, date all her girlfriends I can ‘cause I’ve no time to pine, or worry. I don’t know if its over and since she won’t tell me maybe it is; "F-it then." If a guy is in emotional turmoil and yet he can stop it by simply not calling or emailing the girl and drop it for a while unless she or he’s far away and it’s the only way of communicating the poor guy is screwed. See how this can backfire on women because revenge feels delicious having someone dangle on tender hooks, tell other friends about how he’s so into me, it’s great having that much power over any human being especially when dating boy, young men, or casual dating, laughing, joking to gal pals on the phone she really stuck it to him and will keep doing as long as he into to her, yes lets hear for girl power. But guys have an option too either stop, calling, get on with their lives which the girlfriend really want she likes or loves him but still want but to keep the guy suffering to teach him a painful emotional lesson. But as time goes by guys figure "No More, if she want’s it that way fine and he goes about his business gradually forgets her name, phone number, address because another woman has entered her life. I know, women say oh well, no most don’t they get angry because the guy moved on when in her reality she’s suppose to publicly humiliate him before dumping him complete with water or hot meal in his lap or over his head Problem is when he disengages from the girlfriend going about his business other women may drop into his life. This may be one of the reasons women will get back together and everything is fine then brake up with him publicly. Guy’s, if you ever dump anyone don’t make up and go back, be ready for re-dumping this goes for girls, young women too also guys, gals, don’t go back no matter how you ache for them especially if you’ve broken up with each other many times before. That’s what activities are for while the girlfriends away and what do you young girls and women do when their men are away different thins or whatever they want too. Men learn slow but we do learn. What gets me is as soon as men do find someone to relate to and cherish it is then some women will start testing them its almost if their trying to break the relationship especially if its going well, too well. I refuse to play the romance games because fun, excitement, lust, sex, and crazy making out is great but is it worth losing that someone because at the time they didn’t look or act cool. When men really do reveal themselves to women many are taken aback, some immediately shy away which means their as much cowards when an emotionally, intelligent, and mature man steps up to the plate being real. Like I said to one women "If she really met a mature, emotionally, intellectually, sensitive, balanced Man… in other words her perfect mate she'd run away from him because of shock. Her carefully constructed thoughts on men now in not shattered has become less firm and it’d be worse the more they multiplied as she grew older. Too bad women, men do sometimes have to reject so many mates all the bed-fun they had is a phase as real adult(s) wait in the wings find others while some still play being part of the with-it crowd. But as we all know with-it crowds come and go but truly finding someone even if they’re not perfect who one can relax with is the heaven most people seek. No one is listening so the games go on luckily most men and woman do want to find someone to share their lives with let the lonely gamers find the truth in their own time lets just hope its not to late… Bye. Please send donations to Email: askjoe@poormagazine.org |