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by Joe B. Chick/Lad Lit Ho Hum I just heard on KNPR about Chick and Lad lit or literature of post liberated young women writing books one book to move was Bridget Jones Diary. I don’t read to many works of fiction by women but as I heard on the radio women don’t read books about men,by men they like reading,seeing themselves in print form. Photo’s of legs are popular too. Hmmm,woman like leading about themselves more than men. I always suspected that women are basically selfish and don’t like men prettier than them its too easy for them to say because a man is in the gorgeous category he could be gay or bi sexual instead of just a regular though gorgeously facially and physically gifted man. Me,I not handsome guy but have learned to make up for it by being clean, wearing clean clothes. I’m a nice looking with a constant clean shaven, clear eyed,walking heads up confident air. That more a turn for some woman sneaking a look at me that I don’t realize it sometimes makes it paradoxically sexier to women. Its like the man holding an infant bare of shirt warring jeans sitting bear foot on the floor. He’s sexy because he shows caring for the infant or baby in his arms,those strong arms gentle,caring sent tingles through women conveying him as also in other situations gentle and protective of them most men when they hold any child have an automatic tendency to lower their guard psychically emoting to children and children respond they sense real from false. I’ve been thinking of novel or series of different novels about different kinds of men, one man is sexually abused by an older sister, trapped in another world where his first introduction to said world is raped and tortured over and over until he’s almost driven mad but in this same place he’s the answer to a long awaited prophecy to be savior of that world and the fierce warrior women now love him and would gladly give there life for him as he’s proved he would for them in many an adventure. Another guy out of work gets in and out of trouble propositioned both by men and women, young girls and moral dilemma’s they entail. A children’s book about a not so old guy who’s a wily adventures through his inventions are funny and educational. I don’t think I write lad or chick stories as much as fictional fun. If women and men,boys,and girls,the middle age or senior set like them fine as for critics or arbitrators of the next big thing,phase, fad,or trend they may get confused about categorizing my work because I don’t know how my character’s in stories will react but one things for sure it won’t be PC. I need more schooling obviously some women’s courses,but like the gym once I’m in and learning I’ll probably be ignoring those women who think its an estrogen only club I won’t have time to argue as I pound the books in library or on the net researching unerring truths about women’s psyche. I notice if guys really isn’t seeing a woman when he finding out more about his own self worth they try to under-mind it actually begin throwing sex at him when before he was asking,begging and no was the answer I guess its about control,control in clubs/bars,control at parties,in arguments and the ultimate using sex. If a man controls his sexual urges,can clearly look through subtle games men and women always play and knows life is short as is and games are distractions from what matters either living a single lifestyle or marriage with another of similar interests. It means no more games even though women still make less than men economically you can at least live as long as they minus the socialized game where women don’t pay,for drinks,food,dance and actually have no-sex fun going from bar to bar giving out phone numbers kissing men,leaving men ‘uh blue. I know men do it too but women do it in wolf packs of 2’s,4’s,or as many as 8. They tell each other they’re all for pure fun just to feel pretty, adored,complimented,and in control. Men are more solitary do so in small groups of 2’s,4’s,and 6. We may do this for fun but we tire of it quickly going back female flesh I don’t know about our gay blade bro’s. Women complain about societies backwards treatment ‘um aren’t they too part of society or is when its in their favor as in free drinks,food,car rides, its just find. Yes, they didn’t make the law but the ones working for them they aren’t getting rid of are they? So either Chick or Lad lit means little to me all I need is a few million readers who like my stuff, someone to make screenplays,or have it televised and whatever critics say I’ll boo hoo my way to the bank. I never was in style so should I begin now I think that’s one of the reasons I’m still alive because I didn’t follow drugs,get lots of casual sex,or to many parties this has caused me to age slower, have a clear crisp gray matter,stay negative for aids virus. Now,being careful, wearing rubbers,yes-I feel less but can go longer it’s a trade off and life is better than sickness and death. Literature depends or readers,publisher’s, proofreaders, and editors, and marketing. So guys,girls,stop playing games be single, or married and girls, women,wimmin,wymyn, Grrrr’s,Goth Babes, Goddesses all stop making, leaving guys hot and heavy as fun its no fun for guys and the same goes for the guys especially the pretty ones already married who are the look-don’t-touch for women go back to your wife,stop agitating arguments and her suspicions think of how the cheater’s show busted hubby’s and wives two timing on their marriage. Last thing,you lovely, sexy,alluring formally "Lipstick Lesbians" that can get/hook any straight guy then say "Oh,I’m sorry,I’m Lesbian."STOP THAT DECEITFUL CRAP." Get back with your own lovers,leave straight guys for straight women same goes for straight women going after gay guys for the challenge you know you won’t change most of 'em guess its ego boosting. I guess all the genders are angry at me well maybe you should talk among yourselves and stop playing games. I’m not really angry at lesbians they’re more real and true friends in a fix. Sorry straight gals that's the bottom line. That’s it for now,PM’s moving again back to its origins on 255 9th Street on Mission in the old historic Local 6 Warehouse building (sorry) fems,because cost. For now from this new space. br> Snail or Email Joe at: Email: askjoe@poormagazine.org |