I may become a gigolo when Imagine being told to "Stay Up" until
I have the looks and a perfect body.
she's done,be fully ready for a second bout?
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by Joe B. Women,Men& Others Things I have a few female friends young and old and I’ve seen parts of our socioeconomic/sexual dynamics in action. In dance/bar clubs ladies rule,invited in free while men pay,have a free drink or two from the bar or men buy them. Straight women can dance among themselves while men huddle in dark corners watching,waiting yet we know if straight men do this dance with each other without the slightest hint gayness guess who’d would feel threatened? Yes,women who’ve come to shake their thangs lookin’ stunning and in no way interested in interacting with men drooling over them. That’s the part I don’t understand women get dressed to the max, revealing outfits to been seen so if men are there for a psychological ego boost that dressing for women just doesn’t cut the way men especially straight men characteristically can. However it’s one way complimentary in that few men unless they are gorgeous with pleasing musculature,a car,and long green are complimented to there face. Our world changes slowly too slowly half if it is our (men’s) fault but the other may be our so called better halves who. Women still are low on the scale economic and physical freedoms but their compensations are awareness,time,and perception. Awareness that not all men are slow to change though the majority are. Time: women have more time to grow expand beyond our societies limited scope. Men,slowed by themselves and societal pressures to conform as women. Funny how men as they slowly change women begin to want them to go slightly back to older ways yet want to retain their own new freedoms. Let’s see,expanded psychological sexual freedoms for them but money,car,work,and slight fashion improvements for us. Men will be fully free as women themselves aim to be,equally not as interested in females as they say they are of us because ultimately equality cuts both ways women cannot have it all if men are still trapped in gender roles women want them to be. As more men change how they treat themselves, others,and women it seems women want retro men again of course slightly updated. Remember the ’60,70’s 80’s and 90’s male changed because women pushed them to it. At first men resented the changes but as the millennium shifts men began and continued changing on their own.I believe the constant "Men are dogs,Wrong,Biological Misfits not worth their time,let’s love our own sex."pronouncements These Statements are strong,bold,life affirming its just that they forget the other side of the coin like it or not women are half a sex no better,no worse. Gay men countered that and as for hard wired straight men as I know that war can bind band-of-brother’s in close non sexual ways far more meaningful than gay bar esthetic. Nothing wrong with it its just war bonds men gay or straight like few situations can. Constant rejection if not aimed at men individually but as a group does nothing than convince most straight men that women truly don’t know their own minds,what they want,need,and as convenient change their minds while men if they were equally flexible would be considered wishy washy or wimps. Women,with double standards working in their favor chose to keep them as long as certain societal norms aids women such as men paying to enter,buy drinks,be economically better off, wife not husband battering and rape (Yes,rare but it happens when either an mature woman and young boy or of equal age with a woman wielding garden sheers, knife, or gun threatening bodily harm forcing sex). Sounds funny? Then you, have a bigger,stronger, female grope and grab your balls as her friends watch,tell me what fun it is. From all the jokes women say about how men are just there,do little to help the world, neglecting that they are as equally criminal in their ways. Tell a boy of 11 and girls 14 and older out to rape a kid because there horny,lonely,likes or hates the boy. Who is most likely to be the rapist in this scenario? YOUNG BOY’S CAN,ARE RAPED BY GIRLS, WOMEN. REMEMBER WOMEN MATURE MENTALLY,PHYSICALLY FASTER THAN BOYS. As women and society boasts,well this too is what happens to some young boys,young girls aren’t the only ones damaged by have sex or sex being forced on them at too young an age. But our society says boys,men can only be raped by other men untrue girls,women,older or with weapon can get away with rape more quietly than men and though much less than women the trauma is as devastating and women can report few boys or men feel they can and that society will see as a snickering joke. Men,straight men are really one if not the last to leave their mental constraints and it seems no matter how hard we try to please women they will never be satisfied and always be angry us as the past continues to recede. What we men can do is as women have done in the 80’s, 90’s and 2000’s to find our own worth away from fem anti-male value judgements,there are reasons why we Isolate ourselves sometimes. Reasons why fishing, hunting,sweat lodge,gyms, and mountainous outdoors call us. Ok, women have proved they can do everything better,as the saying goes "It takes a woman to do a man’s job" Great now that you’ve competed,won against in competitions you know how shallow and false the whole thing is. Ladies never understood being by ourselves in the wilderness or the neighborhood gym was never about pure competition with our fellow men some of it yes but most was about seeing how we do against ourselves not you. Personally when I go weights or swim I really don’t care how pretty the women are inside I’m their to improve myself and if I get a date that’s gravy. Don’t care if body building woman is stronger than me if I’m to straining place a weight back up on the bar and a stronger more experience woman spots me that’s good for me and later when stronger I can spot her. I don’t compete with women because win or lose I as a man lose either way while women for just stepping up to the plate (baseball term) she’s praised either way while I’m condemned either way and that’s a double standard women don’t mind because it’s a woman’s win-win societal standard. As men find themselves slowly as with women not needing,wanting them as much addicts need their fix it seems women are panicking wanting men to revert into updated better dressed strong, silent types. Women may not need us but in their hearts still want us they want us to listen,not argue,and like a preverbal gingerbread, snowman (perfect man) books. Their perfect men are nice,don’t argue and if they do their heads can be bitten off." Yes,it’s a joke but its has a bit of truth that men are so confused about women’s motives they won’t say or do anything to be in view of scorn. To late guys say nothing or talk either way we are slammed because they’ll go for our privates, or weakest points to take advantage of. The size matters – doesn’t matter crap. Guys, use what ‘ya got to your greatest advantage that means the brain. Your brain the largest hidden sexual organ there is. If women play the game let ‘em you don’t have to they’re able to get it whenever they can they say but guys where the other half we’re the ones with the attachment. If men are so rotten and bad why do lesbian use battery operated phallic shaped objects and fruit especially when their tongues are suppose to the end all be all of lesbian sex obviously banana’s, cucumbers, flowing water, and phallic shaped objects are in place of… could It be male dumb sticks? I strayed from "The Gigolo Thing" maybe that’s a subject woman,current or retired gigolo men can broach other than I but I’d like to get tips from either gigolo’s or women who’ve rented their services what made them chose them and if… well I don’t have the looks or body but I’m curious anyway – to have a gigolo’s knowledge get and use it for free. I don’t think I’d ever be paid for sex more like I would be the one paying. But men aren’t perfect gingerbread/snowmen to be cast aside they can build perfect men by cloning and genetic manipulation which is feasible or deal with men as they improve like they are. We are stumbling in the dark as they and like them Men hold up the other half of the sky. Email: askjoe@poormagazine.org |