This is why men get so much its women with their elephant memories
grief. Most men let stuff go...
that don't let stuff go or remember negative
aspects and few possitive ones.
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by Joe B. Int. Women’s Day Pt.2 As I left the story from the youngest of infants to old men were dying in forests,under earth,and sea becoming part natures design as they accidentally find anti male preserves for women. Meanwhile new kinds of males are created who can bare and nurture children a feat that for many women felt completely secure and now the very foundation of womanhood is threatened by genetic manipulated proof that being a woman no longer mean automatic superiority of life and death. Its all hypothetical women bare children,both right and left sides their brains work in tandem solving problems,they are mentally,emotionally if not physically stronger than most males and ultimately have the power to bring forth or end life once begun in the womb. I have to stop for a moment when mentioning right/left brain communicating with other is not purely a female trait those all if not most women think this way men can and do to an extent I use myself as an example. Early Monday,I’m on a crowded bus heading for work when the bus turns a Geary and Polk Street people rush to get of before the bus stops one of rusher is behind telling to move which I cannot because I standing with backpack on back. "Move. "He says this tall mixed race well muscled man looking angry muscled. "Go,Go,Go On already!!" He pushes by me like some enraged bull. Once off He’s screaming come out,lets have it out now. "Go,Go,Go,I'm screaming back at him as people still get out and sneak in the rear doors of the bus. Then it happened! Words,thoughts are going through my head in crystal clear split second clarity. Long ago lessons of pressure points on carotid artery,adam’s apple,sides of the ribs,belly,flat- back hand,or kicks,some can kill,stun, incapacitate,or knock out a person. The sutures on my teeth hurt I feel salty-sweet blood on upper left roof of my mouth,550 dollars! A dental appointment and housing authority on the same day,my job is not my career path,I want to jump a mudhole it the guy I don’t care how big he is all I see is blinding red rage. I had to leave a new girlfriend and I’m horny abstaining from sex for lent. My mind saw all these thing going on at once and looking at the guy still screaming to get out and fight him rationality like a cool wet cloth told me what to say next. "I gotta go to work" I hollered at the man. The rear door close and I’m off the bus at few stops away still in the throws of angry,pissed but in control heading for my job. All men are not blinded by rage some man as women do think,proces through as we’re feeling our testosterone tunneled rage. Maybe more men do this than women expect but since they are convinced from what they’ve seen,experienced they may be blind to those that do process through anger's red-green-blue sheen differently as women. Or it could be I've been with a few that I'm tuned in and can automatically think through emotional turmoil. Though it does seem that women too have blind spots. Another beef I’ve got on post International Women’s Day is an article in today’s The Mix (Tuesday’s March 9th Examiner) on Club life & marriage can mix. Straight men over 30 are seen as sad and pathetic when going to clubs yet single woman are not. Yes,women still earn less than men but conversely they are creating more small businesses and corporations. As for clubbing gay men who are single can be any age and there’s no negative consequence. Being the backbone dollar boys helps that perception as long as they pay the bucks. I’ve gone clubbing danced,enjoyed myself but when it came to asking women individually or in groups to dance the old rejection bug hit and instinct told me this could be a regular sure enough ignoring first impressions I do more going to other venues and it happened over and over again now I know why men pick and chose carefully because in groups or alone women for any given reason have to yay or nay power and many of them chose to be asker than the askee. It could be they sense that one I found a women and we dance,got to know each other better 1 to 1 settling down is my motive and they're still in wild woman,untamed,never settle or settle down frame of mind. I’ve stopped because of economics and being a social drinker doesn’t help. One other phenomenon: "The Girls Night Out Game" We all know boys night our with men going out on the town singly or in groups to basically get laid this can be straight or gay,guys will be guys going after either glory holes. Questions Anyone? Donations C/0 Poor Magazine Email: askjoe@poormagazine.org |