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by Staff Writer Due to Recent Domain Name loss and recapture problems our PNN news site As of Thursday, May, 30, 2002. My Ask Joe Column is also down, I cannot place my latest musings [MEN’s LIB? in] Women’s Liberation conjures up bra’s on fire in trash cans, angry faces rage twisted in economic disadvantage and violence against their minds and bodies. With self defense martial arts classes either with or without weapons. Independent of males if not the male gaze. The right to choose abortion is tenuous at best even with the RU-486, birth prevention pill. More women as hero’s saving themselves and men in TV movies, motion pictures, revisited history. Sensuous, sexy, savvy, solemn, women male dominated his-ignores herstory or Peoplstry? [if there is such a thing]. No longer under control unless it's for their own purpose. I think the patriarchal chain was always a strain on men not in power but following societies dictates see's no choice but to obey those dictates. Women struggling to free themselves may have also helped their fathers, son’s, boyfriends, brother’s, and husbands to loosen if not brake these mental chains. Its been a long faltering process of half steps, reversals, and fear of change but men do change even though both men and women now suffer a 9/11/’01 Terrorist, Wartime 1940’s to 50’s timewarp of conservatism to be married, having children and placing their personal freedom on hold until America’s War On Terrorism ends. This is a non solution - most of daughters and sons will not timejump back to so called "good old days" especially the then outnumbered minorities but now more numerous minorities who’s great grandparents, and parents live through the "Good Old Days" don’t wish their children to relive them yet again. Well, who holds the other half? Men do. Though more unknown women have been dishonored, died at the hands and words of men. Men have equalized it fighting in wars and killing each other in the streets we are our own worst enemy. As men we have shown our value by devaluating others this system must change, some of us have changed. Being strong, silent, ignoring internal pain, holding back tears has cost short lives which women have gotten use to that is after women began caring for themselves we should follow their lead. American men are or seem bland because they are perceived to have had more an easy than difficult time but the sad secret is we suffer in silence and call it being brave when real courage means expressing pain, getting, help, leaning on that strong woman just enough to begin again. Men are getting better its just at a slower rate we may not be as quick as woman are because we don’t use both side of our brains like they do. Women cannot wait for men to "get it" so they must move fast as men slowly plug along. But many males see the future and don’t really care if a women is President or head a Mega conglomerate multi national companies we just want to live longer lives with girlfriends, wives, and be with children, and greatgrand children. Out future may separate for a time but we will always merge or civilizations slow dies. Someday science and technology may correct the internal disadvantages of woman and men physically and mentally and we’ll be truly a balanced species but for now this intimate battle-of-sexes has no winners everyone loses. As one the "frog guys" who has all the parts but always comes up short in women’s eyes because of looks, clothes, lack of money, or not being lead by the second head. I learned the hard way that being my book reading, quiet, thoughtful yet gregarious self puts some women off because I’m not looking to be all for someone - very few people can or are everything to one person and I have to really do my own will and not be or have some else's will submerged or subjugated to mine. I’ll probably never be the man most women want but I’ll be the man I want to be with few or no regrets and if it leads to life’s lonely crossroads then so be it. Life is full of choices and mine is to be free as possible in this over civilized 21st century living. But I know young girls, women will do as I; Whatever the want or need. ...Bye. For Joe only my snail mail: |