Don't know about a TV show
about who's the sexiest on the tube.
Is the ultimate being a loving
family man, woman, or single parent?
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by Joe B. There is a show probably its been on an left about the sexiest people in America. Now come one, so an audience emails or phones what they thing is sexy but these people are making themselves up to enhance whatever good looks and bodies they have already. I don’t know about you folks but that’s kind of indefinable like the old Clara Bow "It" girl she was suppose to have "IT" an indescribable something that when seen through a camera lens made her an incandescent, instant star of the silent screen. Rudolf Valantino was so full of the stuff women would swoon from the image on screen. Certain people in Holly-world still have that something that makes the camera and people go after them like bears to honey. Yet from another screen legend Actor Ricardo Montalban once said "The best lover he knew was his father, who loved his wife (Montalban’s mother) to the end of his life. Now that’s sexy and looking good didn’t matter to the woman who loved him, to her he was her sexiest man alive. Another thing, there was some commercial with a well built man bare of chest holding an infant it made women swoon as well. He’s a nice looking guy with a decent body (doesn’t matter to me) but I believe it was the way he gently held the infant, kissed his/her head that melted women’s hearts. Yeah, he’s young, handsome but even if he was balding and old would invoke a similar response. Because these men showed more than a good looking hunk but can be gentle, nurturing, playful when with a child. It’s almost a shock to see men that way. Women melt because their maternal instincts kick in and then for a moment want a guy like that and also if he’s that, loving and gentle with a child the question is: How is he be in bed? I’ve handled a few children, infants, and tenderness does come out taking care of newborns, tots, or young children my paternal the male equivalent of maternal instincts come to the fore and can be equally as gentle a mother’s caress. All I wanted at that moment is protect the child and when I’m outside with a child do I notice females looking at me with a child in tow? No, because they are not my focus I don’t realize ignoring them just as women with children or younger siblings do the same as men try catching their eye. Would I know how sensuous, or sexy I am just then? No because my total focus is on the wee person to keep them out of harms way. Women’s perception are he could be lover, father, boyfriend material honestly men don’t realize being themselves with a child is a turn-on women. And in my so called sexiest irresistible moment I dare not use that hidden charm for self gain because my charge, a small child is more important to me than getting a women’s phone and address. Maybe woman can test their dates by seeing how infants, children, react to them. We know about dogs, cats, birds, or other animals react but there unpredictable infants and children on the other hand may be better gages and though sometimes they too can be fooled its not very often. I guess its all in the eye of the beholder my nearly ex girlfriend would gently slap the back of my head if she saw me looking at other ladies especially going to the movie. "I’m just looking is all" I’d say rubbing my head Though I never completely got out of the habit of enjoy the bodies, faces, figures, and shapes of lovely looking young and mature women I stop looking at them in my then girlfriends presence but her nickname of "horny little devil" stuck. All of us fine each other sexy at one time or another it all depends on perspective and beholder’s eye. A television show to tell us who has "IT" all over again is just so much hogwash. There are times when walking nowhere in particular someone catches you or you them in their most innocent, sensuous, and playful when we’re at peace with ourselves. Wait A Minute! We’re at our most sexy, sensual when we are at peace within ourselves. I don’t know about you folks but I gotta take a walk and think maybe volunteer an help a friend by taking their child to the park for a few hours to relive them of some excess family stress and reconnect again. Bye. Please send donations to For Joe only my snail mail: Email: askjoe@poormagazine.org |