Ever see some words and wondered Here's what my thoughts on it. Let someone else do the No Win Dance... There's enough strife,why take others
about their meaning?
up on their's.
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by Joe B. Hmmm,You Can’t Win Pic’s ? Everyone enjoy the two day 4th? San Francisco’s fizzled because of heavy cloud cover. I walked over to the Square and Embarcadero hearing loud booms,some flashes but only saw ground-to-air sparklers. Its like half my senses turned off with blunted sounds and flashes. New York and other cities had great fireworks. A few months ago while getting a free paper spied a grayish photo of a topless woman with a legend below which read "You can’t win." Didn’t think much of it then a few days ago saw a blue inked outlined woman (again topless) with the same legend and I began thinking either it’s some new young girl(s) or women’s group promoting sexual equality,freedom. However looking at the way the women are just there bare of breast, looking at,while daring males or females to look upon them with longing a longing that will be forever unfulfilled. Maybe a boy or young man did this who knows but if one looks at it the words seem to challenge you to try. I remember a time when lifting weights when being trained by a woman trainer used a women who obviously worked longer on weight training than I in fact she was a competitor I learned later. Thing is I knew the woman was stronger than I because she is more experienced,has more knowledge. The old men are naturally stronger dynamic doesn’t work when a guy though biologically stronger than a woman is placed against one who has trained for a few years. its similar to martial arts in that if one does not study and expects to win. A new student studying diligently could outshine the more experience rusty student. I declined knowing the outcome of the unbalanced contest. As for those two pictures of women showing defiance in their faces it came to me that there "You can’t win" is a truism. Many women have trauma’s or must overcome handicaps men,boys,or other women doesn’t know about them and even if they get over their problems those inner trauma, sadness remains. Boys, men not knowing these young girls or women’s inner turmoil aren’t able to help and since the women have by now have buried these deep problems. It’s men who are blamed both the original caused these trauma’s and those who have no idea what make’s their girlfriends, wives,go off angry. Most men are in no-win situations if they have no idea why their dearest loved one’s are so unhappy, despondent,and full of self loathing of themselves an others. Just like that "When Harry Met Sally" with Sally’s fake orgasm at a lunch table. Funny,amusing,then you realize men can never really tell when and if women are having good or great "O’s it’s completely up to them to fake or be real. Now,this secret is out and women say they don’t need men,can do it for themselves. Women have trapped themselves a supposedly win-win situation. the "No Need Men" for vaginal enjoyment,using phallic shaped objects with batteries is a kind of trap in that no matter how many objects,batteries,self love after a time it gets’ well dull the feeling lessons until they realize they need something or someone real. It may take a long time but eventually reality must play itself out after mechanisms have had their long uninterrupted fun. Vibrator’s don’t sweat, don’t move unless it’s been out in the sun or from excess perspiration. You know how straight guys go after Lesbian or Bisexual women or Straight women for gay men as a challenge to their Fem or Manhood? If they succeed it’s a small psychological victory at best because their conquest at some point will return to their natural inclinations even if they truly loved their purely straight counterparts after fighting their biological imperatives. If someone sets up a can’t win scenario the challenger cannot win because the ego of the other is invested in not giving in for any reason. Therefore, I need not go through a thankless a battle that’s already lost. Why bother going after an adorable,sensuous,and very pretty woman who’s made it her life’s work to not be touched in mind, heart,or spirit. Guys, women who fake it and not tell you fool two people you and themselves and if women can get their own O’s as they like saying then let them enjoy self love,or with their sister’s. Men can do it to and women know it so with that settled. For all those lovely women baring their lovely forms in a blue scrotum tease let’s let them be so we can find the many more ladies who’s psychology is based on winning by losing to and even if they can do it for themselves don’t mind a bit of help. Men and women make things difficult for themselves by no communicating,playing games,using double messages,and other subterfuge. Its so bad that men need aDoubleAgent women who can decipher both men and women’s double talk because both women and men really don’t communicate but talk in coded messages. All both sexes have to do is rid themselves of coded words,hidden motives, and cynicalput downs of each other. The entire alternative sexes Bisexuals, Transsexuals,Transgender, Lesbians,Straight(s), Women-Men,Boys,and Girls have their codes problem is we cannot speak truth to power for each other’s lives. All I can say as a Black Heterosexual Male is my deep liking of the feminine. Its no pedestal or superior/inferior as both sexes are capable of immense cruelty,self sacrifice,devotion,love, self respect,and love. I’m not going through knock down,dragged out, fights over whose the best/worst sex in People Worldom. No more blame lets take our battered,bodies, bruised egos to the bed and gentle to rough,to ardently love away all our pains warts and all. For the "You Can’t Win" Women. You won; no one can against if you want to keep the battle. Know this – when no one is there to fight,because they’ve given up,gone to those not warring but in active fraternizing with the so-called enemy. This stupid battle of sexes that I am no part of will end either in either our species death or a final equalization of monies for equal work for equal pay. Fem President’s,Vice President’s,meshing the best of men and fem.’s brain,hormone, psychological and chromosomal shared to remove all impediments in or half-and-half states. Could it after all is said and done this is our reality,our birthright for us to succeed in evolutions slow ongoing race. First and foremost we must both forgive and bolster our sexes,break all those men can’t,won’t fem.’s can’t,won’t do getting over all our limits and letter surpassing them.
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