Romance And Relationships For Date/Mate
Mature Males.
Not Necessarily Propagate.
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by Joesph Bolden Ok,this is how bad I am with pc's & online stuff.
I just finished a new column based on what's written in my booklett
Expanded on Platonic Overkill:having a female as friend minus sex yet includes love interest. Luckily posted its all on Myspace.com where I have an online journal of sorts. Here it is in full. (The Gender Beef) column,all the rest u can read anytime and comment on them too. If you want to write your opinions women,men, boys, or girls these are the two sites to place your views and incidently purchase my book. Note to self more pages book has too little content. New Column: Gender Beef, write in folks, we all might learn anew. Category:Romance And Relationships Today,after reading It occurs to me other males have had this situation in their lives either as youths or as mature adults like myself who may have missed out on this in their formative growing years. In either case I didn't know what the heck was happening! If you've gone through kindergarden,elementary, college,and university the graduate or undergrad schools with friends of the oposite sex male or female you may know what I'm talking about. I don't know how females worked it out but I'd like to know how boys who became men did? Myself,as a child had mainly guy friends until I moved from New York to California in the late 1960's.
My friendship began late in life. Up until the age 48 or 9 I didn't have female friends lovers yes friends no. Your reaction to it, and what ended it,who ended it,and or if its still going on and why? I have to say I didn't chose her,she chose me and for a long time had no idea why'd she'd even dain to visit my place let alone speak to me? Let's say I didn't question it long just had a very firely, sensually alluring young female to kick with for a few years. Sure, there was sexual tention mainly on my part she nipped that bud quick and then no probs.
Maybe being Apolitical,an elder while herself younger with politics boiling out her brain her age group more part mentor,companion,fully adult most times She didn't worry about constant pressure of sex I'm a regular horny red blooded guy, of course I wanted to bed her its basic male programming kicking in I also missed out social setting as in dance club/bars but learned I didn't have to change to much. She's told me "Your a scial butterfly." I still don't know how women know or in her case smelled when a guy had sex but she busted me once on it. Outward I'm, embarrassed inwardly glad she knew. Lets face it most young women believe men past 40 are dead below the neck and above the waist. One time I betrayed her so bad online tha I thought the bond broken however we did mend fences and a lesson is learned. Never betray a trust. So I had to wash a few dishes,cook rice. Me being the better cook and go shopping for very revealing undergarments. She's leaving the city soon and if I can will help carry her belongings its the least I can do for her putting up with my random self. My luck to have had a very strong, vibrant, soulful, honest, and lovely friend who happens to be a strong willed woman. Daresay that I am a better elder male for it but it does not mean for one second other women will befriend me as she had. One Fem friend is unique experience enough but more friends with benefits,well I want to explore that avenue too. I'm use to wearing condoms now and buy women's condoms. Just in case they don't have any better safe than sorry and pregnant. Hey!I'm an elder time is precious and F-W-B's is another step in my personal growth. As my dear fem friend would simply say "Your a horny old guy Joe." I hope to place this in A column on relationships.
Mature Males in these changed times. Readers can help by going online to Poormagazine.org an placing emailed opinons. No real names Next thing I like to touch on is: Why when guys find a woman who cares for them they then dog 'em? I ask the same of women too? Maybe both women and men have a few words on that also. |