Women have the upper hand.
They only want equality...
when its suits them.
Women/Men have rules both need not
be mutually exclusive.
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by Joseph Bolden Dating And Such Dating for guys has always been a difficult chore that most of us must go through. For the regular woman liking kind of men sadly we know that no matter how much we strive and try it seems women are never satisfied. Either we’re ugly, too pretty,not rugged enough, too rugged,clingy,afraid, fearless,too short, tall, big,small,poor-homeless or rich playboy-men. Its all seems stacked against us no matter what we do. The concept of "The Wingman" for males is one or more male chums to scope out (stealthly) look for the most sexually available if not attractive women in bar/clubs, strip joints, sports bars, and or casino’s. Women have their versions though slightly complex in that their wing-w Womencan be a group of 2 to 4 deep and they needn’t be present to help their sister’s. Moble or cell phones are handy in that it can hold many more friends unbeknownst to unwary men on dates. Don’t get me wrong doctor’s, lawyers, E.M.T. [Emergency Medical Technicians], police, and all life saving personal need to respond when dire problems loom. But for regular ladies… no all its capable of is shutting down whatever chance we weary men have while on dates. Yes, women say they are liberated, have no need of males in most of their lives (some not even in bed). Guys, those lesbian ladies, men bashers, or those with psychological quirks are off radar so we let them be until they get their own acts together and not to become rescuers to those who constantly cause themselves to be in turmoil. Women have automatic screen-outs that is what they don’t want but they’ve are rude about it wanting so called "cream-of-crop guys." Yet women who date online say they don’t want online trolls men always online looking to find… THEM. They themselves don’t see themselves as online trolls but men online are is a oxymoron logic. Like invisible wing ladies it like wing men only theirs are on cell phones, sending signals from across the bar or pair, tripple, or quadrupled creating a Phalanx or group making it difficult or near Impossible to chat. (offend one or if one takes offence at the slightest misstep or error they take their friend away). I was thinking of the old San Francisco Armory Building at 14th and Mission Streets [finally a place where one can go if they had a job either as writer, producer/director or actor/actress in erotic film.] Yeah, though I’ll never get to be in one of the many anonymous swinging phallus in those short commercial adds let alone full length films its good to know where one is. I’ve seen a few of the men in those films (straight only) mind you and a few of the brother men are not the biggest or best guys they look average. As for housing the S.F. Armory its been abandoned for years and wasn’t being used for anything and now folks are squawking about a sex-fetish house of Kink.com.(?) I say Mr. Peter Acworth is more the honest businessman than so called moralists who have problems with his online erotica business. The Armory was on the market and Mr. Worth say’s why not." Just as with women and their constant changing dating rules there’s comes a point where lots of guys are thinking if not saying That guy on the radio talks about vagina-mony, Until men abandon most of the antiquated notions of women, women will use them against men. Men do change women for all their freedom’s still want men to do for them and then say "We’re not satisfied." I believe women aren’t because if they went all out for complete freedom men need not see to their needs, wants dupes, or be suckers huge boobs or P-date, marriage taxes. Guys do wise up it just that our learning curve is slower but we do keep evolving. As those ever change rules of femdom men must evolve, change our own as women do constantly but in our case make it worth our while not their. Remember "Its My Turn" for women song well now the pendulum has swung back let’s really equalize everything. At (Tell Joe@ poormagazine.org) jsph_bldn@yahoo.com at my email or even snail mail @ P.O. BOX 1230 #204 94102 S.F. Ca. |