I'm No Answer Man.

by Joseph Bolden/jsph_bldn@yahoo.com

Me,the answer Man?No Way.

This is sort of a column in that I’m giving an explanation.

From time immemorial at least recently there has been both Answer
Men and Women writing from pulpit,platforms,radio, television,on video and digital video disks on every question under the sun,over the rainbow about the human condition.

Through out our short his/her-story persons have stepped up,volunteered or because of the sheer intellect and or sensitivity became
or designated ANSWER MEN OR WOMEN.

Even in varying degrees was an answer man for a time.

A complete accident it happened because of the
ASK JOE, HE DON’T KNOW COLUMNS.

Many people see the Ask Joe leaving out He Don’t Know part.

Though for long time I didn’t know where, when, or how to answer my readers many readers did write in.

First I did stuff on investing funds, healthy eating,and lots on romance, sex [mostly sex] and the changing morals of post 1980’s,90’s and early 21 st centuries interpersonal exchanges.

Then it hit me square in my head,I didn’t much about money,relationships were nearly as bad though I had dated somewhat.

The whole cell phone while dating really ticked me off on how
women especially used them then as now for easing out of a date instead off simply saying to the guy "Excuse me, powder/ladies room, back in a sec."

Of course the guy waits and waits until he gets it."

This way the guy isn’t embarrassed in public which women will do

(1) for their own protection.

(2)so the guy won’t Even think of Ever dating her again.

There are many more examples but those who've experienced them know of what I speak.

It works sometimes too well when arbitrarily a woman finds she’s made an error wanting a do over date.

It takes a brave, confident, male with a secure ego to except a date from any women who done a dine n’ dash on them.

The point is when I though about it I knew in my head not to me anyone’s answer man so my next column is Tell Joe because
Logic told me that my readers have more expertise than
I on various topics so they can tell me and the least I can do in comment on what’s written doing the best I can.

Now theirs Ask/Tell Joe column which will be utterly confusing to me since I’m no answer man.

To think I basically wanted to make this a private date site
that’s before going on lots of date sites and meeting a few people on line and in real life.

The answer man thing isn’t for me I just write what’s in my head and let it go at that and people write back or want a date (women only)I’m a happy camper.

For those wanting to write in private and not be part of Poor Magazine/PNN just write jsph_bldn@yahoo.com
and I’ll be able to write back.

It may take time because of lots of email I must delete from old date sites to popup adds and other stuff filling up my email space.

That’s it folks, and my column is done for this week,bye.